I am reading Sherry Turkle’s book, Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Ourselves. Turkle is a professor at Massachusetts Institute of Technology. Last Friday she was Ira Flatow’s guest on the NPR’s Science Friday program. Professor Turkle explained how she interviewed more than 300 children and teens who described feeling immense frustration when their parents use technology gadgets at the same time they are supposed to be interacting with their kids.
The Alone Together author, quoted in a January 31, 2011 Washington Post article, AnyBody: Parents are Ignoring their Children for their BlackBerry, points out, “It’s now children who are complaining about their parents’ habits…” During the Science Friday interview Turkle identified five times when children want their parents to put away their phones, Blackberries, and other gadgets and to pay attention. They include:
- A the dinner table
- When picking kids up after school
- At sports and school events
- When playing at the park or taking a walk with a child
- When playing a game or reading with a child
After so many interviews, with children and adults, Professor Turkle concluded that the immense cultural changes in digital life now require a course correction one that encourages everyone, including parents to focus on the importance and quality of non-digital, person-to-person interaction.
The author is @STurkle on Twitter. The book, of course, is also available for Kindle.
N.B. Thanks to a teaching colleague, Nicole Cingiser, for reminding me about the above Washington Post article.
If you enjoy reading this, please read my post about Turkle’s book, Are Robots the Answer to Caregiving Needs, on my other blog, As Our Parents Age.
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I heard the same radio program! In our family we do not allow phones, PDA’s or laptops at dinnertime, but sometimes I am taken aback by the disengagement we experience by the computing devices in front of us. We recently took a vacation where our cell phones did not have very good reception and it was liberating, so I would add to her list – family vacations.