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Hooray! People are Taking Privacy Settings More Seriously

Posted by Marti Weston on February 24, 2012

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What to do About Facebook Now that Timeline is Here?

Posted by Marti Weston on December 15, 2011

If you or your children or your aging parents are active Facebook users, take a look at these articles and continue to follow the news on the just introduced Timeline feature. Looks like, despite setting our privacy controls, that our information will be widely shared. We may have some decisions to make.

What to do? Google + is looking awfully good right now. Still, I’ve deleted a few things and set up my timeline.

Read these Articles (I’ll add others as I read them.)

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Redefining Public Relations in Our Digital World

Posted by Marti Weston on November 26, 2011

Check out this article about social media at Wikipedia.

If you wonder about the still-new world of social media, and are continually amazed when a few comments on a social media site affect prompt change  (whether it’s a political movement, corporate policy, or an unsatisfied customer quieted down) this New York Times article, Redefining Public Relations in the Age of Social Mediaprovides helpful background. The article, by Stuart Elliott, describes the evolutionary and revolutionary changes in the digital public relations world.

A Few Interesting Thoughts from the Article

  • Internet and social media like blogs, Facebook, and Twitter are transforming the relation between those of us in the general public and the people communicating with us.  It’s no longer top down communication. Read the rest of this entry »

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Communicating on Social Media: As American as Apple Pie?

Posted by Marti Weston on November 17, 2011

Check out the full report at http://bit.ly/vNhmnw

The Pew Internet and American Life Project recently published new social media data, this time asking why American adults use social networks.

From my point of view, keeping in touch with people is a grand old American tradition, as traditional as apple pie. Over the years whether it’s over the backyard fence, via snail mail letter, postcard, telephone, or e-mail, Americans like to connect and communicate.

Interestingly, according to this new Pew data, adults become involved with social media — Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin and others — because of the ease of keeping in touch. People use a social medium  if it makes communicating with friends and family easy and fun.

Moreover, users like that social media now offers faster and faster ways to reconnect with the people from the past — something that was far more difficult in the “olden days.”

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ComScore Compares Social Media Sites: Summer Changes!

Posted by Marti Weston on July 22, 2011

This graph, comparing various social networking sites, is posted at the ComScore Data Mine site. Watching all of these social media sites evolve is fascinating.

Digital age parents need to stay informed about the constantly changing landscape. More importantly, parents need to choose a social networking site, cautiously join in, and learn more about the digital “lay of the land” that their children and adolescents take for granted.

Notice that Linked-In is now number two, and that Tumblr, a blog site with similarities to Twitter, is growing fast. It will be interesting to see what happens with Google+ the next time ComScore mines the data. Watch for an upcoming MediaTechParenting post that provides lots of links to enable easy access reading about Google+.

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Why Social Media? Especially Why in My Child’s Classroom??

Posted by Marti Weston on May 18, 2011

Read this thought-provoking post, Why Social Media Tools Have a Place in the Classroom, over at the GigaOM blog. Writer Ryan Kim goes into considerable detail describing reactions to a recent New York Times article, Speaking Up in Class, Silently, Using Social Media. Kim’s blog post then goes on to offer some compelling reasons why teachers (and probably parents, too) should examine social media more thoughtfully before rushing to judgement.

Learn a bit more about the GigaOM blog.

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Kids, Tech, Social Media, and Grandparents!

Posted by Marti Weston on May 10, 2011

Read about my daughter and her grandmother on Facebook.

Great article in the Wall Street Journal about kids and grandparents and the ways they are communicating with one another. In her May 9, 2001 article, OMG! My Grandparents R My BFF!, reporter Molly Baker takes readers on a “magical mystery tour” highlighting the ways generations are interacting (and sometimes leaving out the generation in the middle). You can also read Jamie Carracher’s thoughts on the article over at his Aging Online blog.

Last August I wrote about this digital family experience in a post, Yes! Grandma is on Facebookon my other blog, As Our Parents Age. Below is an excerpt of a post about my daughter and her grandmother.

Join Facebook?  For three years I avoided the site. I knew that some of my friends from work, church, and other activities were joining, but I just did not feel like it was a fit. My daughter, then in graduate school, used the social networking site, and she occasionally suggested I get started with Facebook. Still I refrained.

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Our Social Media Friends — A Few Interesting Facts

Posted by Marti Weston on March 24, 2011

In a social media situation many parents and teens do not understand the difference between friend and friends of friends. Is the friend of a best pal at camp be OK to accept? What about the older sister of someone from an extracurricular activity such as soccer or dance class?

Read Would You ‘Friend’ a Total Stranger by Bob Sullivan over at the MSNBC Red Tape Chronicles blog. The article discusses how males and females view the friending process differently and describes problems that can occur, especially the potential for stealing personal information, when we accept strangers as friends. The post also includes a link to a Mashable post, Facebook Privacy: 10 Settings Every User Needs to Know.

Another good source that explains more about social networking and the friending process is a post over at The Digital Marketer blog, Real Friends Verses Social Media Friends.

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